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Firstly, thank you to amazing people who wished me well on my last post and I do feel so much better today. We still have a bit of bodyache and maybe I will share my experience in detail if I feel it might help someone. For today, I want to look at the positive side of this horrible virus because that’s how we feel better. Isn’t the first step to feeling better wanting to feel better? 🙂
So, I was just thinking about what is going on in my life generally and where do I stand (I am not someone who does this very often) and I just thought about how much has changed since March 2020! Life was a whole lot different and honestly I do want that life back, mainly for how carefree we were. I guess this is something everyone of us has gone through at some point since 2020. So let me talk about the positives, what changed for better?
1) I got to see so many sunsets!
If you know me, you would know my love for sunset and sunrise. Before lockdown, I was always working during the time of sunset and on weekends I was either out or sleeping. Thanks to lockdown, I saw so many sunsets and the sky changed to every beautiful color I can imagine 🙂 will always be grateful for this one.
2) I tried to cook!
My mom never really forced me to do anything all my life. She is my big supporter who wants me to do what makes me happy and cooking never makes me happy. Eating food makes me happy and I hardly eat if I cook. However, during lockdown we realized how everyone needs to know basic cooking to be self sufficient. I do enjoy occasional cooking and learnt so much of it in lockdown. Yep, I also tried that trending banana bread.
3) Danced alone to my heart’s content!
I love dancing. I am no pro, just your regular club dance crowd that goes wild on bollywood. Lockdown took away the luxury to dance in club so I decided to turn my room into a club! With just the night light on to give the led effect, I used to dance alone (almost) every Friday night to commemorate the start of weekend and it made me feel so relaxed and happy.
4) Learnt that I was capable of being in a long distance relationship!
This one might seem funny. My boyfriend and I are both from Bombay but we met every weekend and sometimes on weekdays too. For me to know a person just texts are NOT enough and I am not a call person, at all. I cannot be with someone whom I cannot spend my time with, it just would not make sense. Yet, when put to test we did manage it and that still shocks me!
5) I (tried) to organize my room!
I am a lazy person when it comes to organizing but I was so bored that I ended up doing that too! Well, I tried. My mom and grandma were so happy, that really made this worth it. I do want to inculcate this habit of organizing into my daily life. I am pretty good at it, only I don’t do it much!
6) Learnt it is OKAY to not do anything!
With so many people wanting to be productive, trying to achieve all sorts of lockdown goals I was just concentrating on what makes me happy. It took me a long time to be okay with not being productive 100% of time. Doing nothing is fun if it makes you happy and it is absolutely okay. Anyone who judges you for it is a terrible person.
7) Started this blog!
While writing has always been my happy place, my go to, I had stopped blogging. Lockdown got me back to it and also made me start the 100 day writing challenge!!! It has made me happy and keeps me on my toes. I always have something to look forward to. Writing is now a part of my routine and I really enjoy it.
Hah! So not a bad lockdown eh?! I can understand if productivity is different to different people but for me the lockdown has been good. Ofcourse I had down days, mental breakdowns, crying for no reason. I struggled. What’s important is that I got back up and took the new day as a new start. Someday, I will talk about the struggles I faced too. For today, let’s be happy with the good side of it.
What was your positive from this lockdown?
Full points to cooking coz I got to taste the food.. ❤❤❤
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Hahaha no brownie points for this.
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I can’t dance. I wouldn’t even dare dance alone 😂🤦♂️
You started your blog and you’re pretty successful! My job is done. *unfollow* 😂🤣
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Oh youuu must try dancing or simply grooving to music, it is so fun and therapeutic!! Hahaha I am nowhere successful 🙂 and even if I was, please continue to follow, inspire and making me laugh !
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Ok…… because you said so. 😒😏😂
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I am glad I said it 😌
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🙂😁
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I wish you good health! Get Well Very Soon!
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I am much better today, thank you!!!
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Mmm banana bread, I love banana bread. My biggest up is i spent the 1st proper lockdown (i was out of work on furlough for 3 months from march) with my girl, we lived together like 24/7 through 3 months. It made me realise that I’m very much in love and we are moving in together properly soon. We live 60 miles away from each other at the moment but im moving down to her.
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Ayeeeee. I love a love story!! Yaya, so happy to know that 🙂 rooting for you guys!! I love banana bread too, eating it more and less making it 😀
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Its the best trust me, thank you so much. Make me banana bread and I’ll be your best friend ever haha
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Hahahah noted!
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Hey!!! You and I are totally same…all the points dude!!… I too learned to watch the sky, to see the sunsets, to cook, to tackle a tough long distance relationship and every other point!!
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Hahaha that makes total sense, you could be a slightly younger version of me ❤
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So true!!! I feel I am a lot more like you!
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The biggest positive for me has been i learned to let go of my anger..with everyone being at home arguments happened quite often..but i surprised myself when i noticed that i wasnt holding on to the anger for as long as i normally would and while i still argued but i also spent a lot of quality time with my family that i would have otherwise spent fuming.
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Omg. That’s such a big win yaar. Big personal victory for you, super happy to read this
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loving 49/100….🐝
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Thank you!
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Some wonderful points there….some of which I have done as well. I can add one more: my husband and I have managed to stay locked in our homes for the past one year without killing each other (I tell you, the struggle is real) 😂😂
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Hahahah oops lobster troubles!! I can relate but I think it does brings us closer too when you realize that you have this one person on your team, no matter what! 🙂
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Agreed. Absolutely 💯
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Get well soon my friend..! ☺️
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I am much better, thank you so much! 🙂
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Most welcome..!
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Absolute beauty this post is!!!! Loved each and every point although I’m biased towards the last one. I’m so glad you started this blog and we are blessed with your daily posts. That’s a big win in this lockdown for me. I’ve never truly appreciated the sunrises and sunsets. I guess I need to pay attention to that.
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Ahhhhhhh I am so happy you loved this. Yes, ofcourse YOU INSPIRED ME TO DO THE LAST POINT! I hope I see it through ❤ omg sky is lovely! Give it all your time!!
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The one about converting your room into a club was amazing as well. Make do with whatever you have in hand. Brilliant!
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Hahahaha desperate times call for desperate measuresss!
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Yes agree..There were luckily many upsides to the lockdown and those ferried us across to here🙂
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Yes indeed, every down has some learning for us 🙂
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The positive i received was it made me slow down and sit with my thoughts. I never realized how busy i was and never took the time out for myself.
I will say that is awesome for you to explore those different sides of yourself. Lol
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That is such a good one. Introspection often leads to self love as well, I hope it does same for you. And yes, it kind of made time stop for people who are so busy as you said.
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I’m glad even in these difficult times, you managed to find a lot of positives. I’m glad that you have returned to blogging. Congratulations on making it to the halfway mark of the 100 day blogging challenge.
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I think that’s the best approach I could find, to see happy things and make my own happiness. Thank you so much, hope I stay consistent and am able to spread happiness and learn from amazing people here 🙂
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Definitely. It is the best approach, hands down. Consistency is key. It’s also the point which I fail to meet from time to time. I hope you’ll be about to stay motivated, inspired and consistent.
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Good for you keep doing what you’re doing, cook look at the sunsets,
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Yay thank youuu!
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As always you’re welcome
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It is indeed assuring to see that the lockdown brought out some hobbies, and enabled us to take a break and appreciate the little things 🌸
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Yesss, as humans we must see the positive to all that is thrown at us and do the best to survive 🙂
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Absolutely! 😊
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🙂 I actually got myself some sleep during the lockdown (Resting is a good thing).
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That’s the best thing!!! Sleep is much needed and relaxing. I am glad you could do that.
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There were definitely numerous things we could gain from the lockdowns, if we put our minds to it. Everyone has been looking forward to “getting back to normal.” But learning new things, rethinking priorities, writing, organizing, I think depending on what we’ve done with the time, many of us will come out of this much better people than before. (I always say, “Normal” is overrated.)
Annie
PS I love to dance, too. When I was closer to your age, I danced with my psychedelic light that flashed different colors all over the room. 😀
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Whoaaaa. Let me start by saying I just got colorful lights installed at my house today in morning and I am reading that you did the same at some point in your life at end of the day. Wow, cosmic. I love such coincidences. I agree, Annie, Normal is really overrated. I’d like for the virus to go away but would not change many things that lockdown gave me. It made me better, just like you’ve said.
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No, you paid a price for that “education.” You wouldn’t want to go back now. 😉
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Trueee that!
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I can so relate to this one!😄 Loved reading this one!✨
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